How to Serve the Tribe
One way to avoid depersonalizing the people who use your product or service is to consider them as members of your tribe, instead of as a target market. You have to live close with members of your tribe, and you can't afford to disappoint them.
Seth's Blog: Tribe Management. 2008-Jan-30, by Seth Godin
Tribe management is a whole different way of looking at the world. It starts with permission, the understanding that the real asset most organizations can build isn't an amorphous brand but is in fact the privilege of delivering anticipated, personal and relevant messages to people who want to get them. It adds to that the fact that what people really want is the ability to connect to each other, not to companies. So the permission is used to build a tribe, to build people who want to hear from the company because it helps them connect, it helps them find each other, it gives them a story to tell and something to talk about.
Once you've been working for weeks on a newsletter or a campaign, it's hard to imagine what it's like to see it for the first time. But that's only way it's ever going to perform for you. Your email messages may compelling on your desk but in the stew of nagging assignments, endless negotiations, purchase receipts, event notices, and holiday cards occupying most of our inboxes, will yours be the delightful mushroom peaking out from behind the potatoes? To survive "inbox stew" your message has to be easy, clear, fun, entertaining, and rewarding. 
Here is an excellent checklist to make sure your new subscriber welcome is "best practice." These are from Margaret Farmakis, Return Path's director of strategic services. You can download an entire white paper on the subject at
Just because someone is your customer doesn't mean they want to subscribe to your electronic newsletter. Nevertheless, you can dramatically improve your subscription rate if you provide newsletters which are perfect for the device your audience uses to read it. For instance, if your readers are using older displays, then having a narrow format is crucial. If your readers are very mobile, they may be reading on a Blackberry and prefer lists of text links to images and paragraphs. 